Parenting Decisions and Parenting Plans: A Calmer Path Forward
- Ryan Clarke, LL.B.
- Jun 26
- 2 min read
When a relationship ends, decisions about the children often weigh the heaviest. A well-made parenting plan turns those big decisions into a practical, written roadmap.
The language has changed — for the better
You may still hear the words “custody” and “access,” but Canadian law now uses decision-making responsibility (who makes major decisions about things like health, education, and religion) and parenting time (the schedule of when a child is in each parent's care). The shift reflects a focus on the child's best interests rather than on “winning.”
What a parenting plan covers
A parenting plan is a written document setting out how you'll raise your children after separation. Strong plans typically address how major decisions get made, the regular schedule plus holidays and special days, how you'll communicate and share information, and how you'll handle changes or disagreements down the road.
A clear plan reduces conflict by answering tomorrow's questions today.
Credible, government-built tools to help
You don't have to start from a blank page. The Department of Justice Canada offers free, research-based tools — including an interactive tool that suggests clauses based on yo
ur children's developmental needs — and Ontario's courts and professional bodies provide additional guidance.
Create a Parenting Plan (DOJ Canada) — official starting point and overview
Parenting Plan Tool — interactive tool with sample, research-based clauses
Parenting Plan Checklist — the key issues to discuss before you draft
Making Plans: a guide to parenting arrangements — DOJ Canada plain-language guide
AFCC Ontario Parenting Plan Guide & Template — widely respected professional guidance
One important note: if there has been family violence or abuse, some of this general guidance may not be appropriate for your situation, and safety should come first. If you or your children are at risk, seek help and legal advice right away.
Approached with care, a parenting plan isn't just paperwork — it's a way to give your children stability and to give yourself a clear, confident footing for what comes next.
Where LAWra fits in
Our fixed-fee consultation is designed to give you clarity on your options and next steps, so you always know what to expect and can plan accordingly. Book a consultation when you're ready.
Prefer to talk it through first? Call us at 1-866-LAWRA-FL (1-866-529-7235) to speak with a member of our team about our services. We're here.
This article provides general legal information about family law in Ontario and is not legal advice. Links to third-party and government resources are provided for convenience; LAWra Family Law does not control and is not responsible for their content. Every situation is unique — for guidance tailored to your circumstances, speak with a licensed lawyer. LAWra Family Law provides limited-scope, out-of-court services and does not replace full representation where it is needed.
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